At Luminari, we value knowledge, education and open-mindedness while advocating for compassion and kindness toward others. Our programs and actions are guided by our mission of fostering a more enlightened citizenry through cultural understanding and thoughtful conversation. In that spirit, we present the first “Cultural Conversations” a window to the customs and beliefs of others through first-person story telling. We invite your to keep the conversation going by sharing your stories with the Luminari community.
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by Dalel Khalil, Writer, Guest Presenter for I Want to be an Ambassador! Camp
One of the most beautiful things about the Syrian culture is
that life revolves around food and family. It is at the very heart of our
culture. We not only gather for weddings and other major events, but it
is also a very strong staple of the social diet to gather with friends and
family, and enjoy each other’s delicious delicacies, wonderful company and
awesome music.
The Arabic culture, and in particular the Syrian culture, is
known throughout the world to be the most hospitable. Not only do we
gather with each other, but we love to shower guests with our unique
hospitality. It is not unusual for a non-Syrian to visit a Syrian
person’s home and be inundated with food, family, music and culture.
As an author, I give cross-cultural lectures throughout the
country, and a few years ago (before the Syrian war) someone who was interested
in visiting Syria asked me, “Will I be kidnapped?” because this,
unfortunately, was the negative image that many Americans had of Syrians.
I looked her straight in the eye and said, “YES!… You will!…
You will be taken hostage into someone’s home, fed so much delicious food until
you feel you’re ready to burst, you will sense it is time to leave, but your
host will insist you haven’t eaten enough and, without your consent, pile more
food on to your plate.”
After a few more hours, you will really need to
get home, but your host will remind you that the party is just starting, and
not let you leave until you’ve drunk more coffee and eaten more dessert!
At some point, you will desperately want to leave again, and your host will
tell you that you cannot leave now because their nephew is coming over to play
some music and sing a special song for their guests. So in that sense, you will
be “kidnapped”… We all had a good laugh, and it changed some perceptions.
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Palmyra (Tidmour); Photo courtesy of Dalel |
In addition to their great hospitality, Syrians offer so
much more to the world. Our historical, religious and cultural gifts are
unmatched. Syria is rich with amazing history and some of the most sacred
ancient sites in the world. Syria proudly houses at least six UNESCO World
Heritage sites, including, Palmyra, Aleppo and Bosra. The first Alphabet
was discovered in Ugarit. Damascus is one of the oldest continuously
inhabited cities in the world, settled in the second millennium. And it is where
the grande Omayyad Mosque is situated, (the capital of the Omayyad Caliphate).
And if that wasn’t enough, within its walls, contains the Tomb of St. John the
Baptist.
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Omayyad Mosque; Photo courtesy of Dalel |
In the heart of Damascus is Straight Street, the prison
where St. Paul was carried down in a basket, and where he was converted in St.
Annanais’ house (all historical accounts in the Bible). The skyline of Damascus
at night is a sight to behold. Blue crosses on top of Christian Churches, and
green marinates, on top of Mosques light up the night sky and are interspersed
throughout the city. And the cool summer night wind of Damascus is more
refreshing with every breeze.
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Souk Hamadiya; Photo courtesy Dalel |
Syrian people who come to America and other Western
countries, assimilate very well into their new lands and tend to be quite
successful in business. They love to share their culture, and always
bring that to their new lands with them. I would encourage everyone to try and
meet a Syrian person and get to know them and our wonderful culture.
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Maaloula at night; Photo courtesy of Dalel |
There is no better way to immerse yourself in another culture than through its food! Learn to make
Traditional Syrian-style Baklava (pronounced Baklawa) that crunchy yet heavenly sweet pastry of buttered flakes and flavored nuts.
Enjoy,
Dalel
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Dalel Khalil is a Syrian-American who is passionate about cross-cultural understanding. She has written an award-winning book about it and currently lectures on the subject. Ms. Khalil, who has traveled internationally, has worked with Iraqi refugees in Syria. She is very involved with the humanitarian crisis and hopes to help Americans better understand the beauty of the Syrian culture.